This type of script is generally used for an Elopement, which is a smaller ceremony. I'll generally copy it out and then make changes to it to suit the day. I'll ALWAYS use 'find and replace' to change to the proper names.
[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B]
<where are the rings?>
We have a professional photographer today, they’d look better without the cell phones out… but I’ll give you a 15 second photo opp right at the beginning of the ceremony
<The Bride arrives>
Who gives this woman in marriage?
<Have the audience sit><Photo opp>
Welcome
(Often a little ad-libbed. Welcome the attendees to the ceremony) (acknowledge travel)
Welcome Family! We’re here today to witness the union of [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] in marriage. Often here we’ll say ‘dearly beloved’, give that some thought. You are their support system, their village, the foundation upon which their love will continue to grow. Your presence here is not just a witness to their vows but a reminder that love is nurtured by community.
Let’s celebrate this special journey together!
Welcome the Couple
Today, you begin a new life together, founded in love, laughter, honesty, respect, and friendship. The promises you make to each other today should not be taken lightly. A marriage is more than a ceremony – it is a lasting and lifelong commitment.
The future promises many happy days ahead, filled with unique opportunities, adventures, and challenges. It is through trust, love, and the unfailing support of each other that you will meet life’s ups and downs.
Optional Reading
<A quote, or scripture, or poem that is special the moment or to the couple>
The Format (to the audience)
The format today is simple, we’ll have a Promise <expand>, we’ll do the Vows <expand>, and then we’ll close with a Blessing. In between we’ll have a brief set of instructions to the couple, that part is called ‘the Charge’. Here we go!
The Promise
Do you, [PARTNER A], take [PARTNER B] to be your spouse and to live together as partners, to treat her with love and respect, and to build a marriage that grows stronger and more loving as time passes?
<repeat for [PARTNER B]>
<get the rings ready>
The Vows/Rings
The wedding ring represents the promises and potential of marriage. It has no beginning and no end, and is a timeless symbol of the love and commitment you have pledged. As you wear your ring, let it remind you of the love you feel here today.
[PARTNER A], please place the ring on [PARTNER B]’s finger, and repeat after me:
As a sign of my love
And that I have chosen you
Above all else
With this ring, I thee wed.
[PARTNER B], please place the ring on [PARTNER A]’s finger, and repeat after me:
<repeat for [PARTNER B]>
Optional mini ceremony
<Sand ceremony, or candle lighting, or similar>
The Charge
1. Thou shalt keep the lines of communication open. Speak the truth in love, with compassion and mercy. Learn to know each other by communicating with each other. Intentionally be best friends.
2. Thou shalt not be disrespectful. You are both in this relationship to support and to affirm each other. Respect each other always as more important than yourself.
3. Thou shalt be thankful. Never be too busy to be polite. Be considerate. Say ‘thank you’
4. Thou shalt compromise. Marriage is more than a relationship; it is a partnership. Two hearts making family decisions that will be mutually beneficial.
The Blessing
<couple is looking at each other>
True marriage is more than just a ceremony or a piece of paper – it is a lasting bond that joins two lives and two hearts. Marriage is love, companionship, trust, and respect.
May you always find strength in each other, laugh with each other, and find safety and comfort in each other’s words and company.
May you celebrate many joyful seasons together, support each other when days are difficult, and continue to learn and grow closer together with each passing year.
<officiant starts to edge to the side>
By the virtue of the authority vested in me, I now pronounce you husband and wife. You may kiss!
<couple breaks from the kiss, turns toward the audience. The officiant has moved to the side >
Ladies and Gentleman, Mr. and Mrs. [LAST NAME]