Advice from Penny and I as we approach our 25 year: When you see a couple who radiates happiness and togetherness, you can’t help but wonder—what’s their secret? Successful relationships aren’t built overnight; they flourish because of intentional actions and loving habits. Here are five simple but powerful things successful couples do to keep their connection strong:

1. Look Into Each Other’s Eyes While Talking

In a world of distractions, taking the time to truly focus on your partner makes all the difference. Eye contact is more than just a physical action—it’s a signal that you’re present and invested in the moment. When couples talk while looking into each other’s eyes, they deepen trust, strengthen intimacy, and affirm their bond. You're not going to like this: put the phone down. 

2. Touch for No Reason

Physical touch is a love language that transcends words. Whether it’s a gentle squeeze of the hand or a spontaneous hug, touching for no particular reason conveys affection and reassurance. These small, unprompted gestures remind your partner that you’re there for them—not just in the big moments, but in life’s quiet pauses too.
Too often, the only touch that couples have is when one wants to initiate. Have a 10 to 1 rule: at least 10 non-sexual touches during the day before initiating. 

3. Forgive Each Other

No one is perfect, and misunderstandings are inevitable. Successful couples understand that forgiveness is the antidote to resentment. They don’t hold grudges or keep score—they extend grace to each other and let go of hurts. Forgiveness isn’t about erasing the past; it’s about choosing to move forward together.

4. Compliment Each Other

Acknowledging and appreciating your partner is a powerful way to nurture your relationship. Successful couples find opportunities to compliment each other, whether it’s recognizing a new achievement, admiring a small effort, or simply saying, “You’re amazing.” Sincere compliments remind your partner that they’re seen, valued, and cherished.

5. Laugh Together

Laughter is the glue that keeps relationships joyful and resilient. Successful couples laugh together—whether it’s over a shared joke, a funny memory, or even life’s absurdities. Humor lightens the load and creates positive moments that strengthen your connection.

In Conclusion

Every relationship is unique, but these five habits are timeless. They’re not grand gestures; they’re daily acts of love that build trust, intimacy, and joy. By making these simple choices, you and your partner can nurture a relationship that stands the test of time—and create a partnership that’s as beautiful as it is enduring.