We grew up with different role models, different expectations.

• Maybe in one household the beds are always made, and in the other... not.
• Maybe one person's parents required the kids to work and save.

The decisions that we're going to discuss here are not life long (Penny and I have both done the budget at one time or another) but it's good to talk through these items. 

So... in no particular order, here are a few:

• Who cleans the toilet/bathroom?
• Who does the dishes?
• Who does laundry?
• Who vacuums?
• Who cooks?
• Who shops?
• Yardwork?
• Who does the budgeting/finances?
  •  How much can one partner spend without notifying the other?
• Who will be working (and what hours?)
• How do we feel about pets?
• How do we feel about children?
• How do we feel about God?
• How do we feel about politics?

There's no right or wrong answer... we're just looking to have a discussion, shed some light on how we feel.